CHOOSE WHERE
YOU SIT

Fantasy is useful. Reality is more interesting.

You may have thought about bondage for years. You may know exactly which boots, restraints, punishments or humiliations turn you on. You may also have no idea what your body will do when somebody else takes charge of the room.

That is the interesting part.

Your first session is not a tour of BDSM and it does not have to be tame. We begin with what draws you in, what you are curious about, what you are frightened of and what you absolutely do not want.

Then we work.

Leather · Steel · Rope · Restraint · Impact · Boots · Sensory deprivation · Medical · CBT · A hood pulled into place · A position you realise you cannot leave

I watch closely. I adjust. I decide when something needs more and when enough is exactly enough.

You do not need to arrive knowing how to behave.

You need to arrive wanting to find out.

You know the difference between fantasy and equipment.

You know whether you prefer leather or steel. Whether a cane does more for you than a flogger. Whether restraint excites you because of the pressure, the helplessness, the position or simply because you cannot get out of it.

Good.

That means we can get specific.

Bring me the thing you already know you love. The thing somebody once did beautifully. The thing everybody gets wrong. The implement you hate until you see it in someone else’s hand.

Heavy restraint · Extended bondage · CBT · Corporal punishment · Clinical work · Needles · Electrics · Anal training · Sensory deprivation · Boots · Confinement · Endurance · BiSexual Encounters

You do not need to make yourself sound extreme.

Extreme is easy.

Preference is more interesting.

Tell me what you want.

Tell me how you like it.

Then leave me enough room to do something with it.

Distance changes the equipment.

Not the dynamic.

Webcam · Voice · Written instruction · Chastity · Tasks · Denial · Inspection · Humiliation · Fetish · Reporting · Positions held because I told you to hold them

Live video gives me your body in real time. I can see posture, hesitation, expression and the moment you begin trying to negotiate with yourself.

Voice removes the distraction of looking.

Written instruction gives you time to anticipate exactly what is waiting for you.

A rule can last longer than a call.

A locked device can remain after I have gone.

An instruction can arrive while you are at home, at work, getting dressed or lying awake thinking about whether I have forgotten you.

I probably haven’t.

Online work can be a single encounter or something more sustained, depending on what interests me and what you respond to.

You supply the distance.

I will find uses for it.